Bold brows are having a moment.  And all of us who spent our high school years torturing ourselves with cheap tweezers rejoiced.

Unfortunately, my "eyebrow game" is naturally more of a unibrow than Cara Delvigne-esque bold brows (what a flattering thing to admit on social media.) However, an eyebrow pencil kinda changed my life.

If you're like me, you don't wear a whole lot of makeup, and eyebrow pencils are something you associate with old makeup ladies.  I am confident that despite the less-than-verbose description, you know exactly what I'm talking about when I say "old makeup lady."

Well, eyebrow pencils can work for anyone.  And there is a way to do it and make it look natural.  It's all in the kind of pencil you get.

Go for one that's self-sharpening (rolls up rather than looking like a school pencil), with a fine tip.  The finer the tip, the more "hair-like" your strokes are going to look.  I like the Merle Norman automatic brow pencil and this one from Milani.

Before - looking a little straggly:

how to fill in your eyebrows

After - much more filled-in and uniform:


fill in your eyebrows

Something else to be careful with is the color.  It's tempting to go for a dark brown to be bolder, but a taupe color usually blends in much better and looks more natural.

natural bold eyebrows how to

I've been filling my brows in almost every day. It makes me feel much more put-together, which I realize is weird. Oh well. Try it and see!



I'm in love with this perfume.



It's an essential oils based scent, so it smells different on every person and becomes a signature scent.  My friend Liz bought it at the same time I did and it smells completely different on both of us.  I basically have my wrist in my face all day because I seriously cannot believe how delicious I smell.

Kinda like this.

I bought this in Montana and was scared that I wouldn't be able to find it again, so I bought 2 (I'm that obsessed.) So I was excited when I found out that they have a website you can order off of, and that the love scent comes in a large perfume oil as well.

Go click around on Auric Blend's site and pick out a new signature scent for yourself! Egyptian Goddess is another really yummy one that comes in larger sizes.  The rollerballs are only about 9 bucks, so you can pick out a couple to experiment with.

Happy wrist sniffing!



I've been searching for something that will make my waves actually look like something pretty rather than a rat's nest for some time now.  Everything I tried either made it too greasy, too sticky, or did nothing at all.  Not so with this pomade from The Hippy Homemaker.


It smells great, is made with all natural and organic ingredients (no chemicals! Yay!) and it works great.  What more could you want?

I used it by scooping out a tiny amount (a little goes a loooong way) and melting it in the palm of my hand.  Then I scrunched it all over and waited for it to do its thing while my hair air dried.



My hair started waving up and holding its shape immediately (and it lasted until I washed my hair again! So 4ish days).  Above was while my hair was still wet, and here's how it looked a couple hours later:


Nice, beachy waves.  This stuff also gave my hair awesome "stick" for right after being washed - it stayed in buns and braids so much better than my freshly washed hair usually does.  I've used it for the past two weeks, and I love it.  It's a great moisturizing treat as well - with shea butter and jojoba oil, it deep conditions your hair while making it look awesome.

You can get your own tin of head trip here.




I change up routines with the seasons.  Depending on the weather, my hair and skin need different things.  Here's what I've scrounged up for spring, and right now I'm loving all of them:

Renpure Originals Shampoo

Ya'll know that I love my Organix Coconut for when I don't have time for baking soda, but recently I've noticed that when I wash with it my hair gets oilier and limper earlier than it used to. I was talking to a friend and she said that the reason for this is that your hair gets used to whatever shampoo you're using, so it doesn't clean as well over time.  I'd been using Organix almost exclusively for a year, so that explanation definitely made sense!
I picked this guy up at Kroger and I'm loving it so far.  It's dye, sulfate, and paraben free, and leaves my hair nice and fluffy.  There's also a coordinating conditioner that I haven't tried (I usually only use deep conditioner), but if it's anywhere near as good as the shampoo you'll love it.  They're on sale here!

True Blue White Tea and Apricot Scrub

This is probably the most gentle exfoliator I've found.  It  leaves your skin feeling clean and refreshed, and using it in conjunction with my baking soda and honey routine hasn't messed up my skin in the slightest.  My skin can get dull, and this gives it the kick it needs to get all that dead skin off and increase circulation to brighten me up.  Get it here.

Rinse Squalene Oil

In addition to dull, my skin can get really dry.  I had a hard time finding a moisturizer that didn't make me break out, but this one is a winner.  Squalene oil is really close to the oil your skin naturally makes, so it doesn't clog your pores.  It also isn't heavy and sinks in fast, so you look glowy and pretty rather than greasy.  Get it here.

Nude Nail Polish

I'm a dark nail polish girl most of the time, but around spring and summer I try to lighten it up.  Nude nails are my favorite, and this polish (Sally Hansen insta-dri Petal Pusher) looks good on almost all skin tones.  Get it here.

Fresh Picked Lip Butter

I'm usually not into lip gloss in the little pots, but this one is too pretty to pass up.  It's super moisturizing, comes in lots of pretty, yummy flavors, and has a pretty wash of luminizing color with no shimmer, which is a kicker for me.  I personally like the Pink Passion Fruit one because the pink color looks good alone or over lipstick, but there's a red strawberry and peach-colored peach (go figure) one to choose from too.  Get them here.





My good friend Courtney hooked me up with a bag of pureology shampoo samples (hooray!) and as she was handing me the bag, she said "And there's a french bobby pin in there!"  Having no idea what it was, I just said "Awesome!"  When I got home, I dug that french bobby pin out, more curious than anything.

You guys. You need one of these. Or, you know, a whole box.


I have seriously thick hair.  When I try to throw my hair up into a knot, the idea of using bobby pins like most tutorials say is laughable.  There's no way it will hold all of my hair up.  

But the french bobby pin does.  Seriously.  All you need is a hair band, the pin, and three minutes for the perfect messy bun.

1. Pull your hair into a ponytail, as high as you want your knot to be.

forgive my awkward face.

2. Take your hair and wrap it around the ponytail.  Make it messy.


3. Take the pin and slide it in sideways.  I jiggle it up and down while I'm putting it in so that it grabs more hair and is more secure. Some little pieces will probably fall out, but I like it that way.



So far this is the only style I've tried, but I can't wait to experiment more!

Don't forget to enter my launch giveaway!  I'm giving away one of the most popular necklaces from my shop.  The giveaway post is here.




I paint my nails all the time, but unfortunately my life isn't conducive to keeping a manicure.  Working, typing, and cooking make my average manicure last about 4 days before it looks atrocious.  I'm always on the lookout for  a product that will help keep polish on my nails, and I think I finally found one.



I first used this at my friend Ashley's house because I am that friend who waltzes into your home and uses your nail polish.  That was Friday, and my nails still look really good - even after a pretty grueling retail shift.

3 days in:



There are a few chips right at the end of my nails, but no big chips at all. These are the kinds of chips that you can trim your nails and your manicure looks like new (does anyone else do this?)
I'm really impressed with the staying power of this stuff.  It was very easy to apply - no globs - and dried super fast even though there were at least three layers of polish underneath it.


If you have trouble keeping polish on your nails, I would definitely recommend giving this a try!



winter essentials

I get super dry in the winter. My hair, my lips, my face, and my hands don't respond very well to the dry air and the wind.  These are a few products that help combat that.
1. Wella is great for your hair - and it helps keep your scalp from getting itchy as well! 
2. Hand cream is a must this time of year, and this one from the body shop is good for your nails AND your hands.
3. I've harped on rosebud salve over and over.  Just get some.
4. Lush is my happy place.  I have never used anything from them that I haven't loved.  Dark Angels is no exception - the coal in it brightens your skin and combats acne.  I usually just use baking soda, but in the winter I need something that brightens as well as cleans.
5. I don't moisturize every night, and this cream is thick enough that it's ok.  My skin tends to be on the oilier side, so being able to skip moisturizing every other night without my skin feeling tight saves the oil from getting overwhelming.


My hair is super thick, so I get layers cut into it to lighten it up a bit.  While layers are great for keeping my hair from giving me a migraine, they're not so great for when I try to wear a braid.  I'm sure it's happened to you - pieces falling out, bobby pinning until you can't feel your fingers.  Not so pleasant.
Well, here's a solution for when you want a side braid and your hair won't cooperate.


Here's how:
1. Put your headband on so that it goes around the front of your forehead - like you're going to wear it boho style.


2. Take pieces from the sides of your hair and flip them through the headband.  I do about two pieces to a side.  How much you use depends on how thick you want the braid to be - for a thicker braid, use less hair on the sides so that there's more in the braid.




3. Take the remaining hair and braid it!  You can do a regular braid, a fishtail, one of those ladder braids I have yet to master... go crazy.



And you're done!  Takes 5 minutes and looks fancy :)






Let's start with some honesty - I only get my hair cut twice a year at most.  I trim my own split ends at home. When I got bangs, I thought I was going to have to change that habit, and my wallet was none too pleased.  So instead of succumbing to broke-ness, I dug in and researched.  Now, I trim my own bangs - pretty successfully, if I do say so myself.
Here's some pointers to keep your bangs tidy between haircuts, regardless of how few and far between they may be.

1. Cut vertically, not horizontally.  In other words, like this:


Not like this:


Its tempting to cut straight across, because it's one snip and done.  But your bangs will look like a shelf of hair if you do that - not a good look. Cutting vertically in small snips keeps that piece-y look that your hairstylist cut in when you first got them so you look like you got a professional trim, not like an overzealous 5 year old's Barbie.

2. Cut 'em dry.  This is probably the biggest mistake DIY trimmers make.  When your hair is wet, it's longer than when it's dry.  Cutting your bangs wet often leads to chopping off more than you meant to, only to realize it when you dry your hair and it's too late.  Dry cutting makes sure that you're only trimming off what you need to.

3. Keep to the middle.  If you had a good stylist, your bangs aren't a straight shot across your forehead; they're shortest in the middle by a tiny amount, frame your face on the ends, and are blended into the sides of your hair.  We can't recreate that, because we did not attend the same school of hair magic that our stylists did.  When you're trimming, keep most of your snips towards the middle of your forehead, where you bangs are shortest.  That's where the annoying hairs getting in your eyeballs are located anyway, right?  Stay away from the blended sides, because you can't do it.  Believe me, I have tried.  It wasn't pretty.

Follow these three tips and you can cut your amount of trims in half!
Pun intended.






My gorgeous friend Amber text me the other day to talk about her lips.
Namely, the fact that the winter is not kind to them.  It's a problem we all have when the weather gets cold - between the dry air and the wind, the delicate skin on our kissers gets chapped and peel-y.
I try my best every winter to keep the chapping at bay, with varying degrees of success.  This winter I've done pretty well coming up with a routine that keeps 'em nice and moisturized.

1. Exfoliate.  This is one of the most important steps in getting rid of chapped lips.  Exfoliating gets the dead skin off so that it can't block the healthy skin underneath.  Plus, it makes your lips all rosy :) You can buy pre-made lip exfoliates, but a cheaper homemade alternative is sugar and vaseline.  I get a dollop of vaseline on my finger, dip it in sugar, and go to town with the scrubbing.  You can also add some coconut oil to the mix for even more moisture.

2. Night balm.  My lips are always dry when I wake up.  I recently started using a night balm from bath and body works and I'm loving it - starting out with more moisturized lips keeps them from getting as dry during the day.  I use it during the day sometimes, but its a little thick for daily wear.  Any really thick lip balm will do the trick.

3. Protection.  The easiest way to keep your lips moisturized is to keep balm on them during the day.  Unfortunately, its also the easiest to forget - once I put on balm in the morning, I often forget to reapply it throughout the day.  A good rule of thumb is to try and reapply at least every 2 or 2 and a half hours, and right after you eat or drink something.

Yummy lip balms are all well and good, but in this kind of weather your primary concern should be the protection power of your balm, not its flavor.  My favorite heavy hitters are rosebud salve and carmex - neither one are particularly high on the yum scale, but both will get the job done!



The first step to keeping your lips healthy is realizing that it actually does take some effort - it doesn't happen on it's own.  Exfoliating and using the right products can go a long way towards healing and preventing chapped lips!


Have you seen My Big Fat Greek Wedding?  If not, go do it, and thank me later.  For those of you that have, remember the dad who uses Windex to fix everything?  Well, my friends recently brought it to my attention that that's me and baking soda.
When I thought about it, they're completely right.  I use baking soda for everything.  Upon further contemplation, I realized I used petroleum jelly for everything too.
Since its likely that you already have both of these things in your house, here's a few ways you can use them that you might not have thought of:

Baking Soda


wash your face. I've posted about this before, but I'll recap: make a paste in your hand with baking soda and use it to scrub your face.  I've been doing this (plus some other all natural stuff, click the link above) for about a year, and my skin has never been better.

wash your hair. I'm planning a more informative post about this soon, but I'm sure you've heard about using baking soda to wash your hair.  I use a little of it in a small bottle (formerly a travel-sized lotion), and dissolve it in warm water, and use it in lieu of shampoo.  My hair is loving it.

unclog your drain.  Depending on how far gone your drain clog is, baking soda + ACV + warm water can unclog it.  Put baking soda around the drain, pour a little vinegar over it and let it sit for a few minutes, then pour hot water over all that and let it drain.  It may take a few times, but it works.


Petroleum Jelly

grow your lashes. Yep, I'm serious.  I've been using PJ as an eye cream for a few months, and I can definitely tell a difference in the length of my eyelashes.  In a pinch, you can also use it as eye makeup remover.

keep your hair color on your hair.  When I'm dying my hair (yes, I use a box and do it at home, and yes, I'm completely pleased with it), I'll put a layer of PJ around my hairline to keep the color from bleeding and dying my ears or forehead.

scrub your lips.  Around this time of year, my lips get dry and peel-y.  So I'll take a dab of PJ and some sugar and use it to scrub my lips.  It makes them baby soft and gets rid of all that gross dead skin that makes your lipgloss look weird.

you can get petroleum jelly in a tube here

Do you have any basic products that you use for a ton of different things?



Yes, I know, there are approximately 82 billion tutorials for messy buns online.  Which is funny, to me: isn't the whole point that it looks "undone?" Much like no-makeup makeup, it takes a whole lot of effort to look like you didn't make effort.
Anyway, back to what I was saying - yeah, there are tons of these tutorials out there, but I was never able to make one work for me.  My hair was either too short, too long, too layered, too brown... you get the idea.
This is how I've been making a messy bun, ever since I discovered it last week.  It was a feeling akin to finding the holy grail.  It works great on my hair, and it's pretty secure, so I would assume it works well for layered hair.  Its also pretty easy to tweak if your hair is super long.

Start by parting your hair straight down the middle:



Take the two sides of your hair and tie them in a knot, like you're starting to tie a shoe.



This is where you tweak it if your hair is super long: tie two knots.  
Take the loose ends of your hair left after you tie the knot(s) and put a hair tie around them, like a ponytail.


After you add the hair tie, mess your hair around the knot and pin.  You can pin it however you want and make it as messy or sleek as you like!




This looks nice and messy, but its actually very secure and stays in all day.  You can make it fancy by adding in some braids on the sides if you like.  As always, this stays in better if you have a little texture in your hair - hello, third day hair excuses!

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I have shared about my issues with growing my bangs out and how I'm dealing with it.  At work especially, having my long bangs in my face is really irritating, and I get bored just bobby pinning them back.
The other day I was messing with my hair before work, trying to find a way to put it up that I liked and kept my hair out of my way.  As usual when I start messing with my hair, braiding was one of the first things I tried. This is what I ended up with, and I've worn my hair like this about a dozen times since. It's like a half milkmaid braid - I like it better because it's not all up; there's still a bit around your shoulders.


Start by deep side parting your hair, almost all the way to your ear.  If you care about whether the part is straight, you'll probably want to use a comb, because it's hard to do with just your fingers.  Once you have it parted, start french braiding across your forehead.





Instead of stopping at your ear, keep the french braid going around your head.  Do it pretty tightly to keep it from falling apart - after the braiding is done, you can always go back and rough it up.  I prefer my hairstyles messy, so I always go back and loosen the braids up.  Grab small-ish pieces of hair to add to your braid so that it doesn't get too lumpy around the top.





Eventually you'll want to switch the side of your head you're braiding from to bring the braid around the nape of your neck. Once you get back around, there's always an annoying strand just left hanging there.  I grab it, twist it under the braid  and finish it off by regular braiding the rest of my hair.


(forgive my derpy face here)

This style is great for second or third day hair, or any time you just want it all out of your way.  Plus, it only takes about 5 minutes!