Bold brows are having a moment.  And all of us who spent our high school years torturing ourselves with cheap tweezers rejoiced.

Unfortunately, my "eyebrow game" is naturally more of a unibrow than Cara Delvigne-esque bold brows (what a flattering thing to admit on social media.) However, an eyebrow pencil kinda changed my life.

If you're like me, you don't wear a whole lot of makeup, and eyebrow pencils are something you associate with old makeup ladies.  I am confident that despite the less-than-verbose description, you know exactly what I'm talking about when I say "old makeup lady."

Well, eyebrow pencils can work for anyone.  And there is a way to do it and make it look natural.  It's all in the kind of pencil you get.

Go for one that's self-sharpening (rolls up rather than looking like a school pencil), with a fine tip.  The finer the tip, the more "hair-like" your strokes are going to look.  I like the Merle Norman automatic brow pencil and this one from Milani.

Before - looking a little straggly:

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After - much more filled-in and uniform:


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Something else to be careful with is the color.  It's tempting to go for a dark brown to be bolder, but a taupe color usually blends in much better and looks more natural.

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I've been filling my brows in almost every day. It makes me feel much more put-together, which I realize is weird. Oh well. Try it and see!



I try to go as long as I can between hair washes, within reason. I can usually do about 5 days without it getting gross, with the help of dry shampoo and sometimes half-washes for my bangs in the sink. The gorgeous girls of Treasures and Travels did a feature a while back where they all showed the hairstyles that get them through a week of no washing, and since all hair types are so different (and I get lots of questions about how I make my wash last so long), I thought I would do the same!


So, about my hair texture: my hair is incredibly think and coarse. It's prone to dryness and split ends, but it usually has lots of volume and holds styling well.




Day one, fresh after a wash.  I usually wash my hair at night and blow dry my bangs with a round brush.  Occasionally I'll use a hair dryer on the rest of my hair for a minute or two just so it isn't soaking wet, but usually I'll let it air dry.  I work in a repairing treatment, concentrating on my ends, for extra moisture since my hair tends to the drier side. The morning after I wear my hair down and work the waves!



Day 2 is usually a half up/half down.  Sometimes I'll put it up with a hair elastic, but I usually use bobby pins and twist the sections of hair before pinning to give it a little more volume up top.  This is gonna sound elitist, probably, but after years of inadequate bobby pins, the ones from Sally Beauty have a much better grip than the ones from Dollar General.  In my opinion, they're totally worth a few cents more.


I'm glad that messy pony tails are having a moment, because they help me get through life with much less time spent drying my hair.  Day 3 is almost always messy pony day.  It's also the first day I break out the dry shampoo (I've been using Not Your Mother's); I'll spray a little in my bangs and work it through the top of my ponytail for extra volume.  The messier the better on this one, so I usually just rake it up as high as I can with my fingers and secure it tight so it stays bouncy.


Day 4 is when it allll goes up.  I've found a ton of hair tutorials for this style, but this one has got to by my favorite, and by far the easiest (I'm showing T and T some serious love with this post, #notsorry).  A little hairspray is always a good idea with a style like this, and I'm a fan of this one because it's not sticky.


You really can't beat a head wrap for hiding greasies.  This one is from Rayna Jaye, who makes the cutest ones in the land.  I'll run some more dry shampoo through my bangs put a little argan oil on my ends if they're dry, and I'm good to go! This is also a great style if you oversleep because it literally takes .2 seconds.

So there's a blueprint for taking your wash up to 5 days!  What are some hairstyles that save your wash?


Is there anything better than cheese? Not really. Unless you add bread, then it skyrockets even higher into it's better-than-everything-ness.

Can you tell that grilled cheeses rank pretty high on my list of favorite foods?

When I make them for dinner I try to add more to them than just cheese - because Caleb is a man, and a simple grilled cheese isn't really enough sustenance for him, and because I like for dinner to be a little bit fancier if I can help it.  That's not saying that we don't have nights when all we can throw together is a bowl of cereal and some peanut butter for protein, but whatever.


The other night I wanted a grilled cheese, but needed to add something to it.  We had smoked cheddar cheese in the fridge (side note: get some), and I added some sliced tomatoes and bacon for a yummy sandwich that had a little more going on than just cheese.

I've got big plans for my grilled cheeses.  I'm thinking a summer version with cucumbers and feta, maybe a bullseye version with an egg and some spinach... the possibilities are endless.

Rock on, grilled cheese.


I've been getting into plants lately.  Mostly succulents, because I'm (almost) guaranteed not to kill them, but flowers too. My favorites are peonies and hydrangeas and once we buy a house I plan to buy a gazillion bushes of them to plant outside.


I thought that having succulents would be expensive, but they really aren't.  I've bought 3, from farmer's markets and Lowe's, and none of them have been over 5 dollars.  They're also easy to propogate, or so this article by Needle + Leaves has told me.  I've tried it out with my jade plant, and I'll let you know how it goes!


Planting things helps me when I'm stressed out, and it's nice to have greenery in the house.  I'm hoping that the more I mess with succulents and flowers, the better at it I'll get and I can be that lady with the really elaborate flower garden.






In the spirit of full disclosure, these aren't real polaroids.  They're prints from the Printic app, but hey! They're much cheaper than buying a polaroid camera.

I was antiquing with my friend Taylor on Saturday and found this cute old shutter.  I just had these pictures tacked to the wall, but I figured this would be a much more unique way to display them.


I poked a tiny hole in the top of each picture with a tack, threaded some hemp string through it, and tied them to the cross bar of the shutter. I hung the shutter sideways, but you could also hang it right side up and hang the pictures from the slats of the shutter.


I'm loving how it turned out! And planning on printing lots more pictures to hang from it!



I've been searching for something that will make my waves actually look like something pretty rather than a rat's nest for some time now.  Everything I tried either made it too greasy, too sticky, or did nothing at all.  Not so with this pomade from The Hippy Homemaker.


It smells great, is made with all natural and organic ingredients (no chemicals! Yay!) and it works great.  What more could you want?

I used it by scooping out a tiny amount (a little goes a loooong way) and melting it in the palm of my hand.  Then I scrunched it all over and waited for it to do its thing while my hair air dried.



My hair started waving up and holding its shape immediately (and it lasted until I washed my hair again! So 4ish days).  Above was while my hair was still wet, and here's how it looked a couple hours later:


Nice, beachy waves.  This stuff also gave my hair awesome "stick" for right after being washed - it stayed in buns and braids so much better than my freshly washed hair usually does.  I've used it for the past two weeks, and I love it.  It's a great moisturizing treat as well - with shea butter and jojoba oil, it deep conditions your hair while making it look awesome.

You can get your own tin of head trip here.




If "how long can you go before you absolutely have to wash your hair or you will have no friends" was an Olympic sport, I would rock at it.

Sadly, I don't think that would fit across the news marquee, so whatever.

This is a hair idea for days when 15 more minutes of sleep wins over shampooing:





These were taken JUST NOW in the English department lounge, thus the studious bookshelf background.

Take any headband (I like Pink Pewter because they're fabric-backed and won't slip.  Plus, sparkles), and put it on like you're going to wear it hippie-style. Then tuck all your hair up in the back.  Styles like this make me thankful that "messy hair" is a thing right now, because it's pretty much impossible to do it perfectly.

Two minutes and you're out the door!


Happy Valentine's Day folks!
Even if it's not a holiday you particularly enjoy, it's certainly a good excuse to dress up and play with your makeup.  This is an eyes makeup look I use a lot when I want something more dramatic than my usual eyeliner/mascara combo.  It looks fancy, but it's really easy.


What you need: mascara (waterproof stays all day), eyeliner (I prefer liquid), and a 3-color eyeshadow palette.

1. Apply concealer around your eye.  It covers up your veins and keeps shadow in place.


2. Eyeshadow/Eyeliner.  The lightest shade goes in the inner corner and on your browbone, the medium color goes on your eyelid and extended a little bit past (to make your eyes look bigger), and the darkest goes in your crease.  Draw the crease on a little higher than where it is naturally to help widen your eyes.

Eyeliner shouldn't be too heavy since you're wearing a lot of eye shadow.  I just put a thin line next to my lash line.


3. Mascara should go on thick!  If you want some extra lash oomph, use Japonesque Fast Lash to extend them (If you wanna know what I'm talking about and how to use it click here. It'll change your life.)


Finish up with rosy cheeks and a pink lip gloss, and you're good to go!


Awards season is upon us.  I don't really watch them (I just catch the important points in gif form on tumblr), but they certainly serve for some hair and makeup inspiration. One of my favorite looks is Chloe Moretz's braided updo, so I decided to recreate it and add a few more braids because that's how I roll.  The end result looked more Khaleesi than movie star, but I kinda like it that way.

original inspiration:


Triple Braid Tutorial


1. Start out by taking a piece of hair above your ear and french braiding it around the back of your head.  Braid another piece below it the same way so it ends up like the picture below. Keep regular braiding the ends until the whole piece is braided.


2. On the other side, french braid a piece of hair from the front.  Only french it a little bit of the way and then transition to a regular braid.  Bring it to the back with the other two braids.





3. The 3 braids are going to be one strand of the regular braid you're bringing all your hair into.  Bundle up the 3 braids, split the remaining hair in 2 parts, and braid the 3 parts (2 parts hair, 1 part braids) together.



You can either braid all the way down and secure it at the end, or secure it midway and curl the ends.  


Now go reclaim your throne, Mother of Dragons.  Or go to a movie premiere. Whichever you prefer.








My hair is too thick to do lots of cute things.  There's almost too much of it for milkmaid braids, buns sometimes look like planets on my head, and it's way too frizzy during the winter.  I've had trouble putting it in a messy bun before, but I finally conquered it. Having trouble with a messy bun isn't unique to thick haired ladies, though... our fine haired sisters have the same issue.


This is my cute friend Lindsey.  She's an elementary school teacher, so her hair has to be out of her way while she's molding the minds of the kiddos.  However, since it's really fine and slippery, it can be hard to find ways to put it up and make it stay.

We messed around with it last weekend, and came up with a way to put it in a cute messy bun in defiance of its texture (mwahaha.) Here's what we did:


Get some kind of thickening product on your hair.  A texture spray, dry shampoo, or even plain hairspray will work. Anything to make it stickier than normal.


After you've gotten some product in it, put your hair up in a ponytail as high or as low as you want your bun to be.  We opted for high.



Wrap the hair from the ponytail around the base and secure it with another hair tie. Make it as loose as you can.  Really, the only part that needs to be held in by the hair tie is the very end of your hair so that it's still in a bun shape.  You can use your fingers to mess it up and pull pieces out.

After it's all roughed up, use a couple bobby pins to pin down around your hair.  This is the part that makes it appear thicker because you're pinning a couple inches away from the actual base of your ponytail.  The messier it is, the thicker your hair will look.


Give it another dose of hair spray, and you're done!





My good friend Courtney hooked me up with a bag of pureology shampoo samples (hooray!) and as she was handing me the bag, she said "And there's a french bobby pin in there!"  Having no idea what it was, I just said "Awesome!"  When I got home, I dug that french bobby pin out, more curious than anything.

You guys. You need one of these. Or, you know, a whole box.


I have seriously thick hair.  When I try to throw my hair up into a knot, the idea of using bobby pins like most tutorials say is laughable.  There's no way it will hold all of my hair up.  

But the french bobby pin does.  Seriously.  All you need is a hair band, the pin, and three minutes for the perfect messy bun.

1. Pull your hair into a ponytail, as high as you want your knot to be.

forgive my awkward face.

2. Take your hair and wrap it around the ponytail.  Make it messy.


3. Take the pin and slide it in sideways.  I jiggle it up and down while I'm putting it in so that it grabs more hair and is more secure. Some little pieces will probably fall out, but I like it that way.



So far this is the only style I've tried, but I can't wait to experiment more!

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My hair is super thick, so I get layers cut into it to lighten it up a bit.  While layers are great for keeping my hair from giving me a migraine, they're not so great for when I try to wear a braid.  I'm sure it's happened to you - pieces falling out, bobby pinning until you can't feel your fingers.  Not so pleasant.
Well, here's a solution for when you want a side braid and your hair won't cooperate.


Here's how:
1. Put your headband on so that it goes around the front of your forehead - like you're going to wear it boho style.


2. Take pieces from the sides of your hair and flip them through the headband.  I do about two pieces to a side.  How much you use depends on how thick you want the braid to be - for a thicker braid, use less hair on the sides so that there's more in the braid.




3. Take the remaining hair and braid it!  You can do a regular braid, a fishtail, one of those ladder braids I have yet to master... go crazy.



And you're done!  Takes 5 minutes and looks fancy :)






Let's start with some honesty - I only get my hair cut twice a year at most.  I trim my own split ends at home. When I got bangs, I thought I was going to have to change that habit, and my wallet was none too pleased.  So instead of succumbing to broke-ness, I dug in and researched.  Now, I trim my own bangs - pretty successfully, if I do say so myself.
Here's some pointers to keep your bangs tidy between haircuts, regardless of how few and far between they may be.

1. Cut vertically, not horizontally.  In other words, like this:


Not like this:


Its tempting to cut straight across, because it's one snip and done.  But your bangs will look like a shelf of hair if you do that - not a good look. Cutting vertically in small snips keeps that piece-y look that your hairstylist cut in when you first got them so you look like you got a professional trim, not like an overzealous 5 year old's Barbie.

2. Cut 'em dry.  This is probably the biggest mistake DIY trimmers make.  When your hair is wet, it's longer than when it's dry.  Cutting your bangs wet often leads to chopping off more than you meant to, only to realize it when you dry your hair and it's too late.  Dry cutting makes sure that you're only trimming off what you need to.

3. Keep to the middle.  If you had a good stylist, your bangs aren't a straight shot across your forehead; they're shortest in the middle by a tiny amount, frame your face on the ends, and are blended into the sides of your hair.  We can't recreate that, because we did not attend the same school of hair magic that our stylists did.  When you're trimming, keep most of your snips towards the middle of your forehead, where you bangs are shortest.  That's where the annoying hairs getting in your eyeballs are located anyway, right?  Stay away from the blended sides, because you can't do it.  Believe me, I have tried.  It wasn't pretty.

Follow these three tips and you can cut your amount of trims in half!
Pun intended.